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ÀÚ ÀÌÁ¦, ¸¸ÀÏ ¾ÆÀÌ°¡ ÁýÁß·ÂÀÌ ºÎÁ·ÇÏ¿© Çо÷¿¡ Ãæ½ÇÇÏÁö ¸øÇÑ °æ¿ì ¾î¶² ½ÄÀ¸·Î »ó´ãÇÒ °ÍÀΰ¡¿¡ ´ëÇØ °øºÎÇغ¸ÀÚ.
“We offer children more than kicking and punching.”
Parent: My child has ¨çtrouble concentrating at school.
(¿ì¸® ¾ÆÀÌ´Â Çб³¿¡¼ ÁýÁß·ÂÀÌ ¶³¾îÁö´Â ¹®Á¦°¡ ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù.)
Master: We are ¨èoffering our children more than kicking and punching.
(űǵµÀå¿¡¼´Â ¾ÆÀ̵鿡°Ô ¹ßÂ÷±â¿Í ÁÖ¸ÔÁö¸£±â ÀÌ»óÀÇ °ÍÀ» Á¦°øÇÕ´Ï´Ù.)
We ¨éhelp children develop ¨êinternally as well.
(¿ì¸®´Â ¾ÆÀ̵éÀÇ Á¤½ÅÀû ¹ß´Þ¿¡µµ µµ¿òÀ» ÁÝ´Ï´Ù.)
We ¨ëgive children patterns or routines of discipline to follow.
(¿ì¸®´Â ¾ÆÀ̵鿡°Ô µû¶ó¾ß ÇÒ ÈÆ·Ã ³»¿ë, ¶Ç´Â °úÁ¤À» ÁÝ´Ï´Ù.)
¨ìIn fact, ¨íchildren are told what to do.
(½ÇÁ¦·Î ¾ÆÀ̵鿡°Ô ¹«¾ùÀ» Ç϶ó°í Áö½ÃÇÕ´Ï´Ù.)
¨îOnce your child discover ¨ïhow he has achieved this physical discipline, he begins to ¨ðtake pride in the results he witnesses in himself.
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